*waking up to the pulpit* *tapping the mic to see if its on* Weeeelllll (lol kidding let me stop)

I just had an epiphany last night. I thought I would be on hiatus a long time to get this answer but everything I needed to know came to me this morning.

Forget attracting the man/woman you want. Just throw that away entirely. Its a fairy tale. Drop it right now. This is what we all need to do.

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If you are single right now, take out a pencil and pad and tell yourself who you are, what you’ve been through and how it had a hand in making you who you are now. Do this right now.

Now let me show you the man/woman you’ll attract, someone JUST like that…INTENSIFIED. If you find yourself being someone who is afraid to open up, you’ll find yourself meeting a person who will be just that but double what you think you are.

Now if you are in a relationship right now, go back to when you first met the the man/woman, if you can remember. Who were you at that time? Tell yourself who you were at that time, what you’d been through and how it had a hand in making you who you were then. Do this right now.

Now let me show you your man/woman, someone JUST like you were THEN, and of course INTENSIFIED. As you grow and change, they MAY or MAY NOT change with you. If they do continue to resonate at your frequency, they are going to still be around constantly reflecting you. (There should be a name for that type of person, I’d imagine they are quite special.) If they do not continue to resonate at your frequency, they are just going to fall away. They are no longer your reflection.

So as I was saying before, forget your list. Whatever list you make out, make it for yourself. You must first become what you want them to become and you live that. And then you will attract that man/woman to you…guaranteed.

Note: If you don’t know who you are? You’ll find yourself constantly saying, I don’t know who he/she is. If you lied about who you were in the list just for kicks, You’ll find yourself constantly saying he/she is suuuuuch a liar. If you are a player? He/She is going to be a player.

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Life is funny as FUCK!!!!! lol How very funny and entertaining lol